use the frying laddle to cut the feces into smaller pieces first. Afterwards, get and use a wire (preferably one that doesn't rust or a Google Wire in the future) to push in the clog in the hole (the water level inside the bowl must be very low so it won't be messy, and easier to do). You can do this by bending the tip of the wire like that of an inverted letter U(about twice this big), to make the tip a bit wider. It would help if you would bend the wire into a curve like that of a basketball, half circle with the highest arc on the bottom of the toilet bowl. Then push in the wire to the hole so you could push the feces down to the tank.  This is so because the hole in the bottom of the bowl is like a letter J, at the tip, top part, of the letter J is where the feces go out. When the wire is already inside the hole, you can move it side to side and/or you can rotate it